Cremation vs Burial: How to decide which is best
When you lose someone close to you that is a very hard thing to have to endure. Burials and cremation do cost money and many people cannot meet these costs. Many people suffer emotionally but find themselves with a financial burden as well. This causes even more strain to them as they also wonder how to pay for it all.
Should a member of your family happen to pass away, you will be bombarded with a lot of emotions and decisions to make in an instant. You will have to overcome these emotions and make decisions in a short time frame as well. Since this is the case, all things may become unbearable as you will be dealing with your emotions as well.
There is a lot of pressure on people especially when it comes to choosing between burials and cremations. You will have to make all the decisions in a timely manner so that there are no delays. You thus have to put quite a lot into consideration.
As the relative you should know what the desires of the deceased were before making a decision. You will find that in most of the cases, the dead person will have already said what they want. If this is not the situation for you then there are also some other factors you should look at as well. You should not avoid communicating with your family members about this.
Burials are very common all over the world and these are usually followed up by other ceremonies where the family and friends come together. These little get together are quit costly as the prices of commodities are ever on the rise. It is because of this that people are now turning to cremations.
One of the decisions to be made when our beloved one passes away is to decide if the deceased should be buried. On the other hand, another option will be cremation. It is certain that making such decision will never be easy. Of course the wishes of the deceased have to be considered in such cases.
If the deceased passes ways out of a sudden death, it is inevitably that the decision has to be made by the others. Usually the family members will take the role to make the decision. Since the funeral is not pre-planned in such case, the family members will also need to decide on all other aspects of the funeral.
Sometimes cremation will be preferred over burial. If the deceased is seriously injured in an accident, cremation will usually be the only option. This is especially true if family members of the deceased cannot be contacted for some time after the accident.
Of course there are also cases that burial is preferred. In this case, a casket will be bought. This can be treated as a "home" for the deceased to live forever and extra attention has to be made when purchasing the casket.
Both burial and cremation are very common ways to deal with the remains. As a matter of fact, it is totally true that no one will be willing to make the decision on the choice between burial and cremation. However, it becomes an obligation when our beloved passes away.
On the other hand, the choice between cremation and burial can be made a bit easier if there are religious reasons. If the teaching of Buddhism is followed, cremation will usually be the choice. Yet the choice will be made according to the teaching of the religion that the deceased believes in. It will be just like the deceased has already made the decision beforehand.
Most people will consider burial will be an easier decision. The reason for this is that the gravestone can be visited in later time. It will be always good to visit the gravestone as a memory of the deceased. In such case the idea of burial will normally be preferred.
In most cases the decision on whether the remains of the deceased should be buried or cremated is a difficult decision. Of course it will be a lot easier if some kind of religious teaching can be followed. This is based on the idea that the deceased believe in some religions. However, the best case will be having the funeral pre-planned. The deceased will make the decision on this issue beforehand. This will greatly help since the family members will not need to make such difficult decision in case the deceased passes away.
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